Luanne Castle is my guest today to celebrate the release of her latest poetry collection, Kin Types. She’s here to share a poem from the book and its inspiration. Please give her a warm welcome!
Advice from My Forebears
Always use hot pack canning for your green beans
and test your seals at the end.Don’t grab a burning oil stove without considering
the consequences.Don’t get in debt. If you don’t got it, don’t get it.
Make up your mind what church you’ll attend
and go there as often as you can stand.Be Dutch or you ain’t much.
Get the log out of your own eye so you can get
the speck out of the other’s eye.We can’t talk about it, but here’s your great-grandma’s
Eastern Star ring so you will have a signal.Never pick a fight but if someone hits you,
hit them back.Always plant marigolds in your vegetable garden
and keep a compost pile out beyond the shed.If they come to your door, feed them. Then send
them on their way.Just let be.
Be careful with a needle; that’s how your Grandpa
got blinded, coming around his ma’s knee.Sit on my finger, nobody ever fell off.
Watch your step on deck so you don’t fall off the boat
and get skewered by the anchor like your Uncle Lucas.Don’t quit writing like I did. Make me a promise.
Quit scowling or your face will freeze that way.
If you see somebody’s thumb stuck in the dyke,
don’t pull it out.
“Advice from My Forebears” was first published in the museum of Americana (Fall 2015) and then in Kin Types.
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The origins of my desire to recreate family stories lies with my grandfather—and with his storytelling and advice. He was the one who told me how his Uncle Lucas was killed by falling on an anchor as a young man in Goes, Netherlands. Also, he described running into his mother’s sewing needle and being taken to the University of Michigan in Ann Arbor for treatments in 1910. That’s how I learned that danger lurked even in the household.
When I began this poem, I had my grandfather in mind, but I was also thinking of a list a newfound relative gave me. I had met him through my family history blog, The Family Kalamazoo. His mother was Grandpa’s mother’s first cousin. He had compiled the list of advice his mother had given him in the 1930s. The list sounded familiar to me as it contained the phrasing and sentiments I learned from Grandpa. This one, for example: “If they come to your door, feed them. Then send / them on their way.”
The poem became a list much like the list given to me, but with advice passed on over several generations, as well as advice added on with new events. Grandpa was no doubt warned about his uncle’s death by his own parents and grandparents, as his uncle had died fourteen years before he was born, but his own accident with the sewing needle was a newer addition to the family lore. In the most recent event, my grandmother who had wanted to be a writer made me promise not to give up writing.
Family history is a compilation of layered stories, added to by each generation. Much is lost as well, but by repeating what is worth passing on we learn by hearing both the inspirational and the cautionary tales.
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About Kin Types
Kin Types is based largely upon genealogy and a fascination with what comes to all of us from the past. A mix of poetry in the traditional sense and highly poetic prose pieces, the collection takes the reader on a journey into the lives of women and somewhat into the lives of men who must carry on alone once the women are gone. The journey of this collection is not a ramble into the past, but a slingshot into the here and now by way of these portrait tales.
Check out Kin Types on Goodreads | Amazon
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About the Author

Luanne Castle
Winner of the 2015 New Mexico-Arizona Book Award, Doll God, Luanne Castle‘s first collection of poetry, was published by Aldrich Press. Luanne’s poetry and prose have appeared in Grist, Copper Nickel, River Teeth, Glass Poetry Press, Barnstorm Journal, Six Hens, Lunch Ticket, The Review Review, and many other journals. Published by Finishing Line Press, Kin Types was a semi-finalist in the Concrete Wolf chapbook contest.
Luanne has been a Fellow at the Center for Ideas and Society at the University of California, Riverside. She studied English and creative writing at the University of California, Riverside (Ph.D.); Western Michigan University (MFA); and the Stanford University writing certificate program. Her scholarly work has been published in academic journals, and she contributed to Twice-Told Children’s Tales: The Influence of Childhood Reading on Writers for Adults, edited by Betty Greenway. For fifteen years, she taught college English. She divides her time between California and Arizona, where she shares land with a herd of javelina. Visit her website.
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I had the privilege of guest blogging about a poem from Kin Types today.
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Thanks for hosting me today!
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My pleasure!
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My grandmother was an Eastern Star girl too. I don’t know much about the Eastern Stars except their connection to the Masons. Love the advice here.
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Thanks for stopping by, Adrienne!
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Oh wow. Very cool. Was she married to a Mason? I am fascinated with the Masons. Thanks, Adrienne!
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I was fortunate to still have great-grandparents living when I was growing up in the 50’s. They didn’t put up with any nonsense from us. Mammy, as we called her, was a spitfire and the matron of our little street. I still find myself quoting her and my grandmother to this day. There wasn’t a blade of grass in her yard because all the kids played there. She said she would grow grass when we grew up. This way she could keep an eye on us. I loved your sayings and quotes. I wish you much success in the launch of this book. What fun.
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Thanks for sharing, Jeanne!
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Thank you so much, Jeanne. I loved hearing your reminisces. I hope you are writing them down!
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This was a most informative post. I am hoping to get one of your poem collections. Which would be best to start with, or would it even make a difference?
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I’ll let Luanne answer your question, but just wanted to say thanks for stopping by!
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Hi Rae. I love that question! Either one. They are so different. Doll God is traditional lyric poetry that looks at dolls, art, nature, and loss. Kin Types is more specifically focused on “inhabiting the lives of ancestors.
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I think I’ll start with Kin Types
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I can’t wait to hear your response to it!
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I think Kin Types is fascinating, but I have some genealogists in the family.
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It does sound fascinating! Glad I will be reading it soon!
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Wonderful post, poem, and book! 🙂
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Thank you for stopping by!
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You’re welcome!
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Hey Merril, thank you so much!
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Hey, Luanne–you’re welcome! 🙂
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It’s so wonderful you have these stories recorded. Grandkids and great grandkids down the road will no doubt find it fascinating. Plus, by weaving it into poetry as you have, readers well beyond your family will enjoy it. I know I did!
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Thanks for stopping by, Carrie!
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Thanks so much, Carrie. I appreciate your support enormously! To reanimate those who have passed gives them new life–and there is so much we can learn from them!
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One of my favorite poems! You’ve created such a wonderful heirloom, Luanne.
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I loved it, too. Thanks for stopping by, Jill!
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Thank you so much, Jill! XO
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Thank you, Anna, for featuring Luanne today. Enjoyed the poem. Thanks also to Luanne.
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My pleasure, John!
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John, so glad you stopped by! Thank YOU!
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I’ve read this collection and it’s wonderful! I appreciated what you had to say about Kin Types.
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So glad to hear you enjoyed it! Thanks for stopping by!
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