I read The Book Thief in 2007, and it blew me away. I’d always been drawn to books about some aspect of World War II (the first I can remember reading is Starring Sally J. Freedman as Herself by Judy Blume when I was a young girl), but The Book Thief re-ignited my passion…er…obsession. It’s been on my list of favorite books since then, and I couldn’t wait to share it with my daughter when she was a bit older.
Fast forward to last week. The Girl was lounging on my bed just chatting about whatever while I was organizing my stacks of unread WWII books. The Book Thief was in the pile because I wanted to re-read it at some point, and it caught The Girl’s eye, as she’s now at the stage where my book shelves are more interesting than hers and she’s constantly asking me whether this book or that book is appropriate for her to read. When she begged to read The Book Thief with me, I couldn’t resist. A chance to share one of my all-time favorite books with a girl who loves to read as much as I do, who also is drawn to WWII books, who actually likes watching the History Channel documentaries about that period with me? I couldn’t pass up the opportunity.
I knew I’d made the right choice, first when she told me we couldn’t take turns reading aloud anymore because she wanted to lean back with her eyes closed and picture the story while I read solo. Next, when she kept shouting, “One more chapter! One more chapter!” and nearly cried when I told her she really had to get to bed or her father would be angry at both of us come morning. And then, when Death does his foreshadowing, she gasps and says, “Oh, no!” in that absorbed and please-please-don’t-tell-me-something-bad-will-happen-to-my-favorite-characters kind of way. And also when she laughs at the same parts I remember laughing at, or when she so maturely tells me that people are wrong if they think all Germans were bad during the war because Liesel and Hans are German and they aren’t bad.
We’re a little over 100 pages from the end, and I’m anxiously waiting to see if the book makes her cry the way it made me cry…and whether I’ll cry again the second time around. I can’t wait to share my thoughts next week about re-reading the book, including The Girl’s reactions and thoughts and what it was like to share a book that means a lot to me in a way that I can’t even describe. Maybe I’ll try to put all that into words.
So this got me thinking about other books I’d like to share with her some day. Jane Austen’s novels, The Joy Luck Club by Amy Tan, The Things They Carried by Tim O’Brien, Night by Elie Wiesel come to mind right away, and I’m sure I could think of more, but the poor girl needs to choose books on her own, too, right? 🙂
Now I want to hear from you: What books do you love so much you want to share them with your children (or anyone really) at some point?? If you’ve already shared a beloved book, please tell me about your experience, whether they loved it as much as you did or how you handled them not liking it at all. Do tell, please!
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We read out loud all of the Wizard of Oz books, most of E. Nesbit’s books, all of The Hobbit and The Lord of the Rings, and The Borribles to our children. I think they will always be their favorites. There’s nothing like getting to read the books you love most out loud and making someone else love them, too.
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I’m just glad she loves to read, but the fact that she loves to read with me is icing on the cake. I’ll have to mention the books you listed to her.
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I just think its so wonderful how you are sharing a story with The Girl like that. It’s great to have a relationship like that together. It’s awesome to hear how excited she is about the book.
I haven’t had the opportunity to share a book in such a way but if I did I think I’d want it be Little Women especially if I had a daughter.
On another note, I really must read The Book Thief. I think I may be the last blogger to read this one.
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Yes, you really should read The Book Thief! 🙂
I’ve never read Little Women, so that would be something neat for The Girl and I to experience for the first time together. Thanks for the suggestion!
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I can break this down by age:
For Preschoolers: Anything Dr. Suess
Elementary School: Where the Sidewalk Ends by Shel Silverstein
Junior High: Holes by Louis Sachar
High School: Hitchhikers Guide to the Galaxy by Douglas Adams
College: Never Let Me Go by Kazuo Ishiguro
Beyond: Far too many to name.
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We’ve also read Seuss and Silverstein together, and she read Holes on her own. I agree with you on “Beyond.” There are dozens and dozens. 🙂
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I just got chills from your story. The Book Thief is a timeless book, and one that would appeal to men, women and kids. My book club, which has several men in it, all universally loved it. It is a slippery slope right now though, with the book sharing between me and my daughter. She is at an age where I am the most uncool and uninformed person on earth. (So it is good you are taking this opportunity now.) She has no interest in WWII…bums her out. She and I have read some Veronica Roth, Lauren Oliver and John Green together though. At this point, I just have to leave books laying around and see if she takes an interest!
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Sandy, I’m sure The Girl is close to being at the same stage as your daughter. I’m just enjoying it while I still can. 🙂
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I cannot wait to share The Secret Garden. I’m already sharing Dr. Seuss and Shel Silverstein, so I’ve got those covered, but a lot of my favorite books are way too mature for “wiggles” at the moment. LOL
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I hear you on that, but when The Girl is old enough, she’ll have access to my entire library. 🙂
I’ve never read The Secret Garden, and I don’t think The Girl has either.
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You should read it. It’s one of my favorites.
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Anna, I loved The Book Thief, too. How wonderful (in so many ways) that you and your daughter are reading it together!
There are so many books that I want to or have shared with my daughters. For my older daughter, books we’ve both read include The Catcher in the Rye, Snow Flower and the Secret Fan, as well as some Japanese lit. For my younger daughter, we both enjoyed Number the Stars, Esperanza Rising, a few novels by Jodi Picoult, and many more books. In fact, when I think back to the beginning of my blog, it began at least in part because my daughters and I were all reading and enjoying our books so much, I felt I had to convey that, somehow….
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That’s wonderful, Suko! How cool that sharing books with your daughters prompted you to start blogging.
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I still haven’t read the Book Thief… I have owned it forever!
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Oh, you really need to make time for it. You’re in for a treat!
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I still haven’t read The Book Thief although I have been wanting to forever. I will bump it up on my list of must-reads. I loved reading this post about you reading to your daughter because it’s what happens at our house too. I read Little House on the Prairie and What’s Happening at MacDonald Hall by Gordon Korman to my daughter which were books I devoured as a child. There are many others we read together, but I’m saving some of my favorites for later.
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I also should have mentioned wanting to share the Anne of Green Gables books, which I absolutely loved. For some reason I thought of that series when I read your comment about Little House on the Prairie, which we haven’t read yet.
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All the fantasy books I have loved 🙂 But with my luck I’d get a none reading child
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I think you just have to introduce books at a young age and show them how books take them on adventures. It’s not that I never let The Girl watch tv, but when she was younger, we were always bringing stacks of picture books home from the library, and we read several times a day everyday. I’d pick out some and let her pick out some, and I think it just planted the seed. 🙂
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What a lovely post! I’m not at all maternal and have never wanted kids, but the thought of sharing a beloved book like this could almost make me change my mind!
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Thanks, Sophia. But just don’t blame me when the baby keeps you up all night! LOL
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Oh man, I wish I was experiencing that book with the two of you! It sounds like you have a kindred spirit in your daughter.
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At least for the moment. We are nearing the teenage years after all. 🙂
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This is such a good question! Especially since I’ve been thinking about it lately as I’m about to teach a reading/writing workshop for elementary school kids. For that class, I picked From the Mixed Up Files of Mrs. Basil E. Frankweiler, one of my favorite books and definitely one I’d want to share with potential offspring. The usual suspects for me are A Wrinkle in TIme, LOTR, and Harry Potter, I think I’d also add The Giver, Stargirl, and the Anne of Green Gables books to that list.
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That’s a great list! I’m still trying to convince The Girl to read Anne of Green Gables with me, but she’s just not interested right now. I didn’t read that series until I was in high school, so I guess there’s still time. 🙂
Sounds like your kids will be reading a lot of great books!
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Oh … this is so wonderful! I LIVE to have this type of experience with my son but he isn’t quite ready for the books I loved so much and I fear we may never have this magical experience. I’m so glad she is loving it as much you ( and I) both did! You made my day with this post!
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Thanks, Jenners. Your son is still young yet, so don’t give up on the magic. 🙂
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This is so awesome! I loved The Book Thief so much. I’m so glad to hear The Girl is enjoying it, too!! I hope she loves it!! I cried, too!
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We have less than 100 pages left, so we’re getting to the sad bits. She always laughs at me for crying at books, so I’m kind of hoping this one makes her teary-eyed. 🙂
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Sounds to me like you’re setting the stage for her to also want to share books that moved her with her own children in the future, and what could be better than that??? !! Love this!
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Thanks, Staci! I certainly hope so. 🙂
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I read the whole Little House on the Prairie series to my son. But I couldn’t get him interested in Nancy Drew.
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That sounds like me trying to get The Girl to read Anne of Green Gables. At least you tried. 🙂
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I haven’t read The Book Thief yet and I really want to. I have to get a copy of it, particularly if your daughter is ‘enjoying’ it too. I love the story of you and your daughter sharing The Book Thief. I can’t imagine how great it is for you that not only does she love to read but she enjoys some of the same kind of books you do.
The books I would love to share with a daughter or just share with people who are important to me: The Secret Garden, The Anne of Green Gables Books, A Prayer for Owen Meany, Crossing to Safety, Angle of Repose, Jane Austen’s books, To Kill a Mockingbird…there are others, too, but my mind has gone blank!
Great topic, Anna!
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That’s a great list, Amy. The Girl is already telling me she wants to read To Kill a Mockingbird because it was on the 8th grade reading list but the new reading teacher replaced it with something else.
Yes, I can’t recommend The Book Thief enough. I hope you give it a try!
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