Today I am thrilled to welcome Isla Morley to Diary of an Eccentric. Isla is the author of Come Sunday (read my review), a novel about a woman grieving the death of her young daughter and finding herself again. Abbe’s friendship with Jenny plays an important role in her healing, and Isla is here to talk about the power of friendship.
Please give a warm welcome to Isla Morley:
When I tell people we recently moved from Hawaii, I get groans of commiseration. I tell them we lived in Honolulu for seven years before the Bishop appointed my husband to a church in the San Gabriel Valley, and the groans only get louder. Poor you, they say. Invariably, I get to hear about the cruises they took around the islands, the luau, the bathwater-warm ocean. They expect me to miss the same things they do. It’s a beautiful place and the spirit of aloha is not just hype, but it’s not these things I miss. I miss my friends.
Since my college days, it’s been rare that I formed the kind of bond that blurs the line between friend and sibling. But in Hawaii, in a matter of months after relocating there, I’d found three “sisters.” We met at church but it was at my house on the hill or at the hole-in-the-wall Indian restaurant on King Street that our little community grew close. Because we are each from a different part of the world, it’s like a mini-United Nations whenever we gather. Occasionally, one of our husbands suggests that these are nothing more than marathon gossip sessions, but we are quick to disagree. “Solving the world’s problems” is what we call it.
Whenever we get together, it looks something like this. Samiana, the Tongan, stakes out the best seat at the dining room table, opens her laptop and monopolizes the wine. She goes online and interrupts the flow of conversation in the kitchen with news flashes, usually about some politician’s infidelity. Ranjini, who was raised in Singapore, is a pediatrician and walks around with a spray bottle of disinfectant inspecting my kitchen surfaces. She never gets tired of me asking her health-related questions. “I found a mole under my arm the other day, Jini. Here, see? Do you think I should be worried?”
Helena, from a little archipelago called The Seychelles, starts chopping veggies for the Masala curry, and clangs pots and pans around to let everyone know that she is the only one doing any work around here. She’ll occasionally glance over at Samiana, notice the level of wine in the bottle, and give a loud, “Hmph!” of disapproval.
Eventually the food is ready and when the doctor is satisfied that we’ve all washed our hands enough times, we eat. Feast, really. I look around the table and I never get tired of the sight. Each of my friends is a different color than me, and I marvel how a white girl who grew up in apartheid South Africa got so lucky.
Between us now is a great big ocean. But that is a small thing compared to what we’ve been through together; a puddle, really when you consider all the wonderful times yet ahead. These women inspired much of Come Sunday, and although the story centers on a terrible tragedy, it is really a testimony to the power of friendship. We can endure anything when we endure it together.
Thanks, Isla! I wish you much success and look forward to reading more of your work in the future.
Courtesy of the publisher, I have 1 copy of Come Sunday to offer to my readers. Because the publisher is shipping the book, this giveaway is open to U.S. and Canada addresses only.
To enter, leave me a comment with your e-mail address and tell me a little about your best friend(s). This giveaway will close on Sunday, Sept. 12, 2010, at 11:59 pm EST. The winner will be chosen randomly.
**Please note that this giveaway is now closed**
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What an interesting set of friends! Thanks for the cool guest post from this author. I posted your giveaway in my sidebar. No need to enter me.
You know, I had childhood friends that were “best friends”, but in adulthood I have a group of “good friends” instead. We get together, drink coffee, chat, vent, and our kids play. I appreciate them a whole bunch, but I do miss having a “best friend”.
jonitathebookchick(at)gmail(dot)com
Thanks for the opportunity.
I’ve known my best friend since I was 2 years old when her family moved across the street from us.
littleone AT shaw DOT ca
My absolute best friend is my daughter.
I would love to win this book.
While I have many online friends that I am close to, my best friend moved across the country a few years ago. I really miss her, so I can understand how Isla feels.
jgbeads (at) gmail.com
It’s been wonderful to be part of this community. Thank you, Anna, for letting me in on this circle. PS After reading my post and these wonderful comments, Samiana is getting the other two together for a trip to see me!
It’s been my pleasure, Isla! Hope you get to see your friends very soon!
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My best friend, Shawn, and I see each other a handful of times a year. We live no great distance just about a 10 minute drive. We have argued and not spoken for months over stupid things and then we forget we are mad and one of us calls the other. We pick up where we left off when we do see each other and know that the other is there if needed. I could call her anytime and tell her I need her and she is on the way before I tell her where I am. We have been friends for 30 years and I dont know what I would do without her.
Good luck to whomever wins the book. I don’t need it as I have one sitting here in my room. It is a wonderful read!
I used to have best friends, but all eight incidences of best friendships I’ve had ended with one or more of us moving away; the longest one lasted 2 years. Now, I just have a group of close friends.
My best friend died 2 years ago. Our friendship spanned over 60 years – from early childhood, through high school, college roommates, marriage, combined family vacations, etc. Shared much happiness, saw each other through the deaths of parents and spouses. I miss Karen, but delight in the memories.
Over the years, during my career as a student, I’ve had many best friends. In school, starting from a young age, I always made new friends, and equipped myself with a new best friend every couple of years. Now, though, I have many wonderful friends, but no one who I’d call a best friend. (Hmm . . . maybe I should go back to school!)
(P.S. Anna, I will post this giveaway in my blog’s sidebar.)
My best friend moved away several years ago. We have kept in touch and are still close despite the distance. Now, she is dating an old high school sweetheart that still lives here and she may be moving back. (big smile)
Please enter me in the giveaway.
justpeachy36@yahoo.com
My best friend is my sister, we are 8 years apart but we are so much alike, she has always come to me for advice and to tell stuff to, its been awesome and even when we’ve been far apart we always stay in contact daily.
Thanks for the giveaway!!! I don’t know what I would do without my best friend – he’s amazing, and I definitely believe in “friend soul mates,” because that’s what he is!!!
areallibrarian[at]gmail[dot]com
I am blessed to be able to list several women that I would be happy to classify as my “best friend.” I have many long-time friendships, some going back to before kindergarten. I think that comes from living in the same home in the same town through junior college, but I also have friends that I met in college with whom I am still very close. They are all wonderful, supportive, unconditionally loving people and it is joyful not to have to tell the my life story. They’ve lived it with me!
JHS
Colloquium
jhsmail at comcast dot net
My best friend is the best! We did so much together, but now she lives in NYC, so now we ‘do’ lots of emailing, writing, and calling instead. She is the most dear friend ever, I adore her.
heatheranne99 at gmail dot com
My best friends are my mom (we are so alike, it’s undeniable), my husband (opposites attract!) and Salena (my emotional and intellectual twin). All 3 of them are essential to my happiness and each brings a different brand of joy to my life.
One of the hardest things about getting older is having your friends. One of my friends from a job that I quit so I could move out of state with my husband wrote me for 20 years. She would share everything that had happened at work and would tell her everything that was going on with me.
One Christmas, I wrote my usual letter and three weeks later I received a letter with no address from her neighbors telling me that she had died of pancreatic cancer. Every Christmas I think of her.
CarolNWong(at)aol(dot)com
This giveaway is now closed. Thanks to everyone who entered or just stopped by to leave a comment. I will announce the winner soon.